Star (October 4, 2010) alleges that Madonna and Carlos Leon are at war over how to handle daughter Lola, who is described as an out-of-control wild child. This really doesn't ring true, considering part of the article says Madonna let's Lola date boys (she emphatically if good-naturedly nixed that on the recent Material Girl pink carpet). However, I would never let my 13-year-old wear anything with a pot plant on it...let alone to school!