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Nov 10 2015
Need To Know: More Elba + Justin Time + Always Be PrEPared + Oprah Rah-Rahs The Kardashians + Killer Whales Retiring + Who's Your Daddies? + Hot Couple Alert + MORE! Comments (0)

 

*widget boy cultureIdris Elba will open for Madonna. Wonder if she'll return the favor?

*widget boy cultureScorching-hot Canadian PM hangs with adorable gay family. Because it's 2015.

*widget boy cultureLearn these PrEP myths. Because it's 2015.

*widget boy cultureI don't get why Oprah is so F impressed with the Kardashians.

*widget boy cultureCraig Moody endorses EM20. Get yours here!

12212164_10153776463123833_831152161_nMasterpiece. (And my books are okay, too.)

*widget boy cultureYour newest rugby-stud crush.

*widget boy cultureSeaWorld San Diego phasing out killer-whale shows.

*widget boy cultureGay-dadded Scheer family tells One Million Moms to MYOB.

*widget boy cultureDonald Trump joins bone-headed Starbucks boycott.

*widget boy cultureMartin O'Malley wants gay service members' records cleared.

*widget boy cultureLearn all the types of daddies, boy.

Tumblr_nwqr9wflra1qai51io1_400Father plows best.

*widget boy cultureJustin Bieber runs in high heels.

*widget boy cultureCaitlyn's new look, on the Glamour red carpet.

*widget boy cultureImmigration setback for President Obama and affected families.

*widget boy cultureScott Baptie is SUPER hot.

*widget boy culturePassion Pit frontman comes out as gay.

*widget boy cultureThis beauty's ass has real promise.

*widget boy cultureAdorable Gus Kenworthy dating adorable Matthew Wilkas.

 

For all those who have been wondering: THIS is how I wrote Carly Rae Jepsen's hit single "I Really Like You".

A video posted by Matthew Wilkas (@mwilkas) on

 
May 25 2015
Memorial Gay Comments (0)

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As one-time Advocate cover man and gay vet Eric Alva reminds us, we have made great strides in the military, but the mission is not yet accomplished.

Happy Memorial Day. Remembering my grandfather, who served and had many life-altering experiences in World War II.

 
Jan 18 2015
Full Out: Being Openly Gay In The Military Comments (0)

A member of British Armed Forces recounts what it's been like for him being completely out as a gay man. It's so fascinating to read, recalling that not long ago, one couldn't be gay in the U.S. military and that it was such a polarizing and politically fraught struggle.

 
Sep 14 2014
Need To Know: Up In The Hair + GOOPs! She Did It Again + Madame President + Didn't Ask Didn't Tell + MORE! Comments (0)

Mike-StalkerAre you a stalker Stalker?

*widget boy cultureMike Stalker's legs are hairy, chest is smooth...wonder what else is hairless?

*widget boy cultureA courageous young Texan's coming-out story.

*widget boy cultureMartha Stewart says Gwyneth Paltrow “needs to be quiet.”

*widget boy cultureHillary Clinton is running for president, duh.

*widget boy cultureISIL beheads British aid worker David Haines.

*widget boy cultureComing Out Under Fire (1994) makes a comeback.

Coming_out_under_fire-01Military service: What a drag!

*widget boy cultureFashion Week posers skewered by Jimmy Kimmel.

*widget boy cultureTexas teacher dodges sex charges by marrying his 16yo girlfriend.

*widget boy cultureArkansas judiciary stacks the deck against gay marriage.

*widget boy cultureMaher IDs the dude keeping “twentysomethings in their parents' basements.”

*widget boy cultureZimmerman threatens motorist: “Do you know who I am? I'll fucking kill you!”

*widget boy cultureMadonna collaborator Patrick Leonard teaming up with Leonard Cohen.

*widget boy cultureEven Russell Crowe's own kid wants him to get out of his face.

 
May 20 2014
Lovers & Fighters Comments (0)

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Fresh clip from the gay romantic drama Burning Blue (in select theaters and available on VOD June 6, 2014) after the jump. The film was originally an Off-Broadway play, and is about two Navy fighter pilots' relationship during the DADT era...

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May 09 2014
Coming Out Of Hiding Comments (0)

HuffPo comes up with 9 ways in which life has improved for LGBT people in the nine years since the site has been in existence. In other news, my own blog is only six months younger than HuffPo and I've definitely accomplished just as much and made just as much money as...oh, wait.

Any nine-year period that begins with a Bush and ends with none in sight (forget it, Jeb) is a win for us all.

 
Mar 19 2014
Need To Know: Tong For The Lonely, Wet For Pets, The Billionaire Blues + MORE! Comments (0)

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Boy-CultureMatt Williams by Sonny Tong is a thing of beauty.

Boy-CultureFlight MH370 is very likely at the bottom of the Indian Ocean.

Boy-CultureKenneth Walsh's Wasn't Tomorrow Wonderful? reviewed.

Boy-CultureDiversity-themed float snuck into the Boston St. Patrick's Day parade.

Boy-CultureMeet sexy Rob Smith, author of Combat, Closets & Coming Out.

Rob_smithNow that's an author photo.

Boy-CultureDesigner Vivienne Westwood showers for PETA.

Boy-CultureThe Chris Christie scandal actually could get, and has gotten, worse.

Boy-CultureShould M.I.A. pay $16 million for flipping us off during the Super Bowl?

Boy-CultureSORRY/NOT SORRY: Loaded twat sez being rich = being Jewish in Nazi Germany.

Boy-CultureVintage underwear set is snazzy.

Boy-CultureThis (below) is someone you need to follow:

Andre-Hamann2Do fence me in.

 
Nov 06 2011
Boy Culture Turns 6: My Favorite Posts Comments (13)

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As of midnight last night, it was exactly six years since my first post. It's been a tough thing to keep up with a dayjob and outside activities, and just when I think I might walk away, a valuable connection or interesting opportunity or a kind word comes my way. Thank you all for reading me.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef014e89143e3e970d-400wiOf whom are you more jealous?

Here are my favorite 100+ posts out of nearly 11,000. Please take some time to read (or re-read!) a couple and tweet or Facebook any you like.

xoxo Matt

6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54ff027a28833-800wiThe pocket pool championships were intense this year


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FROM BOY TO MAN: BC B.C. (2007): The entire history of my novell and novel Boy Culture as well as the movie version; might be my ultimate post.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54f5599878833-800wiJonathon Trent & Derek Magyar make an Allan Brocka sandwich

BOY ON FILM (2006): An account of the NYC launch party for Boy Culture as it played the TriBeCa Film Fest.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54f7f18238834-800wiI was left "Reeling" by the experience

FRIENDS AND "FAMILY" (2006): The movie version of Boy Culture hits Chicago.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54f5ebead8833-800wiNo one would've mistaken me for Taylor Lautner

RAPT PUPIL (2006): The final night of Outfest with Boy Culture; I was fat but on the other hand got to meet Bryan Singer.

 

MY ART

 

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GUYDAR (since at least January 17, 2008) & ENDS OF THE WORLD (since at least January 13, 2008): Attractive men of the world—I got your backs. Your fronts, too.

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6a00d8341c2ca253ef0120a58f680c970bUnaltered iPhone image that still blows me away

"Your pictures suck" (2008): An art critic attacks me, but not without sustaining some hits in return.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e551ff08528834-800wiLet's call it a draw

DRAWN TOGETHER (2008): How my desire to draw related to my secret desire. One of my absolute favorite posts.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef01156faa215c970cThe shirtless one

LOST ANGELES (2009): My favorite photographic travelogue of L.A.

Img_0986_1Even then, New Yorkers feared 9/11 was the beginning of the end

ART IMITATES LIFE (2006): My 9/11 and my distaste for grief tourism.


ME


6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54f435c1a8834-800wiDeath of the party—Jeff in high school, already halfway through his life

BURNING MAN (2007): Tribute to my late high school friend and first romance.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef014e862b4a41970d-400wiSigned, sealed (eventually) delivered

LOST BOY FOUND (2011): There is a book in here somewhere.

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CIAO HOUNDS: OUR TRIP TO ITALY (2011): Finally got José to Europe.

6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54f10b4de8833-800wiDeath becomes here

ILLINOIS DEATH TRIP (2007): Ruminations on death while revisiting a past home, and the past.

Zehnders Life is short...and meaningful

PASSING BY (2008): Mourning the loss of a person I only met once.

Lots more...

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