184 posts categorized "HUFFINGTONPOST"

May 09 2014
Coming Out Of Hiding Comments (0)

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HuffPo comes up with 9 ways in which life has improved for LGBT people in the nine years since the site has been in existence. In other news, my own blog is only six months younger than HuffPo and I've definitely accomplished just as much and made just as much money as...oh, wait.

Any nine-year period that begins with a Bush and ends with none in sight (forget it, Jeb) is a win for us all.

 
Mar 25 2014
Gay Gratitude Comments (0)

Tumblr_n2xdpbnqxA1qfwa93o1_400Via fukkkres.

Veep Joe Biden made a "forceful" case for gay rights, saying much has been achieved but that there is still "much to be done." I'll go along with all of that.

Boy-GeorgeNOH8 for Madonna

In a semi-related matter, Boy George (who does not hate Madonna after all) makes a very smart point when asked, in this piece, about a straight artist like Macklemore doing a gay-rights anthem. He says he is glad, but not grateful.I think that is the best way to win over the gays who think anyone non-gay who expends some of their social and/or political capital on furthering our cause is some kind of used-car salesman who should be doubted and even rebuffed.

 
Dec 02 2013
Boy Culture Turns 8: My 100 Favorite Posts! Comments (0)

BoyCultureBlogYou need a little (Boy) Culture!

StripperIt blows my mind to realize that Boy Culture is now eight years old. I can still remember the joy I felt when I figured out how to post, how to upload an image and how to embed a video. I remember every time a post blew up, bringing in hits and new viewers. I remember the longtime commenters, the trolls, the spam and the never-ending (and validating!) pitches and free tickets and photographers' snaps of half- or all-naked male models. 

RuPaul-Drag-RaceShooting for my blog has never been a drag.

Cone-boyI've used Boy Culture to express myself, to help express others and to connect to people internationally.

I've also used it to show off my humor (both high and low), to flaunt my obsessions, to reality-test my sexual diversions and perversions, to laud the art I love, to lash out against the enemies of gay people and to broadcast my admiration for Madonna.

I want to thank you all for having read this blog over the years. It's a very hard thing to maintain, and it will not be maintained forever. But each time I get some positive (or even just meaningful) feedback, each time my posts are shared on social media, each time something I've written elicits a response, it keeps me going that much longer.

Madonna-stepmother-Joan-MDNAMadonna's stepmother was not impressed.

Thank you. Please enjoy my 100 favorite posts, please let me know if you're reading any old ones for the first time and are liking them and, most of all, please share this entire post far and wide to help get my work out there.

**2008 first one 6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54fdddbfd8833-800wiMy first "Guydar" post from 2008.

As always, you can find me on Facebook (personal and blog), Twitter, Instagram and YouTube (plus, here are my YouTube greatest hits). 

ALL ORANGE TITLES ARE HOTLINKS.

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TOTALLY RANDOM LISTS (2011—2013)

I've gotten way into lists. Way. You'll find more of my lists higher up on, uh, this particular list. But the ones that are just completely random go here because I worked my ass off on them, because I love them and because—judging from Quantcast data—you like 'em, too.

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DuranMy favorite Duran Duran member.

POP QUIZ: VIDEOS THAT KILLED (2011)

Totally awesome '80s! Take this visual quiz to see how many classic music videos you can ID.

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Brando-DeanI wish sex tapes had existed in the '50s.

UNDER THE GAYDAR: 10 PEOPLE YOU MAY OR MAY NOT REALIZE WERE OR ARE QUEER (2012)

I got lots of feedback on this, mainly because nobody realized Nell Carter was with a woman at the time of her death.

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DazzlerI would've chipped in to get this one made.

WOULDA COULDA SHOULDA: 5 INCREDIBLE MOVIES THAT NEVER HAPPENED (2013)

I'm shamless for including Leda & Swan, a movie that was a bomb without ever even being made.

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Lizabeth-ScottGreat Scott!

IN & OUT: 25 STARS' FIRST & LAST PERFORMANCES IN FILM & ON TV (2013)

Being obsessed with nostalgia and with movies, this was fun—but so very taxing—to compile. I loved the randomness of it.

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PSBI hate that music has been sleeveless for 20 years.

20 7" SINGLE SLEEVES FROM THE '80S THAT BELONG IN A GALLERY (2013)

Just 20 from my massive collection of 45s. I got rid of my 12" records, but I've kept these guys because they're just too much a part of my childhood.

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Amanda-BlakeAmanda Blake's marriage was a mystery, with both spouses dying of AIDS.

GAY MARRIAGE: CELEBRITIES WHO MARRIED LGBT SPOUSES (2013)

It might've been more efficient to make a list of famous straight people who managed to marry other full-on heteros.

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Mark-MessierThe infamous Gary Coleman/Mark Messier two-shot seen 'round the world.

ODD COUPLES: 19 UNUSUAL CELEBRITY PAIRS (2013)

This post encapsulates my outlook on pop culture and my desire to twist it and play with it...except in this case, its participants are already doing the dirty work.

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Lake-GenevaHaunted House: The family home that haunted Jane and Bill's final years.

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A FIGHT AT THE MUSEUM (2007)

My late mentor's husband struggles to give away his family home.

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POLITICS (2005—2013)

I'm a political person and I blog about it a lot. Some of the entries stand up over time, but many are so of the moment it was hard to pull the ones I like best.

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Kevin-James-Adam-SandlerWhere Kevin James goes, (unintentional!!!) homophobia follows.

TRUNZO IS DUNZO (2007)

Star Magazine implying gay people aren't quite right? Not normal! This took off on several blogs and GLAAD got an apology from Trunzo over it. Some people think it's being "oversensitive," but Jesus...how much clearer is "Man to man" with a huge "NOT" (NORMAL) stamped over it?

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John-McCainIf McCain calls, I'm not here. 

NEW YORK TO McCAIN: DROP DEAD! (2008)

The time I saw John McCain and showed him exactly how I felt. 

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6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e54fdcda278833-800wiThe Clintons practice some black magic 

WHITE MISCHIEF (2008)

When Bill and Hillary decided to use race in the race for the White House.

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Jason-WetheringtonCrist for the mill 

FLORIDA'S GOVERNOR ENGAYGED: DOES THIS COUNT AS "GAY MARRIAGE?" (2008)

Charlie Crist is gay. Really, really gay.

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Hillary-Clinton-guysThere's always 2016... 

HOW DO I LOVE THEE? LET ME COUNT THE GAYS... (2008)

The gay affair with Hillary Clinton.

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6a00d8341c2ca253ef00e554e2e7d28834Hail, Mary, full of disgrace

 SARAH PALIN = SPIRO AGNEW + HARRIET MIERS (2008)

Aw, she'll never last...

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Whoopi-Goldberg-Prop-8Whoopi-tee-doo & Kate, too! 

THE MARRYING KIND (2008)

That fabulously spontaneous anti-Prop 8 march in NYC.

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Barack-Obama"Fierce advocate" was once a taunt, and is now just true.

WITH US OR AGAINST US (2009)

A post from when the Obama Administration was considered almost openly hostile toward gay-rights advocates. I believe he's turned that impression around.

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OBAMA-DADTA good sign

IT GOT BETTER (2010)

The one where President Obama happily signed DADT out of existence.

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Sophie-B-HawkinsAs she lays her career down to sleep...

DAMN, I WISH SHE WOULDN'T DO THISI (2011)

Sopie B. Hawkins GOesProud. I wish she'd GOHome.

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Merv-Griffin-Tombstone_6I live for death!

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OBITUARIES (2009—2012)

I tend to write about almost every celebrity death I hear about, specializing in anyone from the Golden Era. These are two that really blew me away. You, too?

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Farrah-FawcettVery hazardous duties

AND JILL CAME TUMBLING AFTER (2009)

The death of Farrah Fawcett, a woman whose nips decorated my walls before I realized I had no use for them.

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Elizabeth-taylor-bathing-suitEnd credits

REFLECTIONS IN A VIOLET EYE: ELIZABETH TAYLOR DIES AT 79 (2011)

The biggest living star fades out. It's still hard to believe she isn't around anymore.

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Donna-SummerShe worked hard for the money.

LAST DANCE: DONNA SUMMER DIES AT 63 (2012)

I'd spent a long time hating Donna over her alleged anti-gay comments, but that rumor isn't the whole story on her life.

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Barbara-KentGood egg

MAKES SAD FACE, MOVES LIPS, TYPE APPEARS ON PANEL: "THE END" (2012)

I was surprised when no major news services noted the death of the last person to have starred in a silent film as an adult, Barbara Kent.

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Apr 10 2013
Sucks To Be Conservative Comments (0)
Sodomy
If this HuffPo header were intentional, it would be brilliant. But I think it's just accidentally so. HuffPo's writers are the Being There of news.
 
Mar 18 2013
Meriting A Response Comments (5)

Video courtesy of Yann Perrigault

A truly annoying piece on HuffPo takes it upon itself to apologize for Madonna and GLAAD's "flamboyant" statement against the Boy Scouts. As I wrote on the site and to the author on Twitter, I don't believe activists get anywhere by coddling, wringing our hands and expressing disappointment. I'm offended by the concept of approaching a sworn enemy (as the Scouts' decision-makers are) with an apology and I think the entire GLAAD appearance, while pointed, was really very funny. Madonna's ridiculous get-up tweaked the Scouts and was a great way to mock just how silly their policy really is.

Worse than silly, it's discriminatory, and it's a policy they've had ample opportunity to reconsider in recent decades. Their clear-eyed decision to keep going with it (for now) makes the Boy Scouts absolutely equal to a restricted country club, so they should be mocked and shamed, not the activist-minded Madonna and GLAAD, who are, after all, on the right side of history.

ANYway, I'm sure the author was well-intentioned, but I really think his piece gives aid and succor to an enemy. And until they change their policy, they are an enemy.

As an antidote, check out the cute backstage video above, in which the face of the battle vs. the Scouts—lesbian mom Jennifer Tyrrell—humbly thanks Madonna for "doing that," to which Madonna says, "My pleasure."

Here is Jennifer from the carpet that evening, before her emotional speech from the stage:

 
Mar 15 2013
Need To Know: Inevitable March Down The Aisle, SMASH Closing?, Disney Deconstructed + MORE Comments (0)

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*widget boy cultureVia HuffingtonPost: The literary birth of a chorus boy.

*widget boy cultureWhere in the world is Matt Lauer's fan club?

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*widget boy culture1/4 of men sit to pee in order to keep texting.

*widget boy cultureThe ultimate Kyliedonna megamix.

*widget boy cultureWhich Madonna era are you?

*widget boy cultureLIKE A PROGRESSIVE: Ask yourself what Madonna would do.

*widget boy cultureOver 60% of Americans think marriage equality is inevitable

*widget boy cultureSmash moves to Saturdays.

*widget boy cultureA "fierce Latina superhero Web series."

*widget boy cultureLittle League raffle's top prize is an AR-15 assault rifle.

*widget boy culture"Gus Mattox" (aka Tom Judson) defends the honor of gay porn.

*widget boy cultureJesse McCartney's all grown up and releasing a new album.

*widget boy cultureTN Senate opts to "pray away the gay."

*widget boy cultureWorld's largest gay nightclub, Krave Massive, opens in Vegas June 15.

*widget boy cultureWorld's oldest cat turns 27.

*widget boy cultureStephen Fry &. anti-gay Russian politician go at it "hammer & tongs."

*widget boy cultureHAPPILY NEVER AFTER: Best Disney parody of all time.

Disney-parodyAnd...fins.

 
Nov 23 2012
Need To Know Comments (4)

REBECCA-KADAGA-UGANDA-KILL-THE-GAYS-BILLGoing All Out against a country going all in on the persecution of gays

Widget boy cultureHelp tell Uganda its "Kill the Gays" bill is abhorrent. Madonna-Mexico-new-album-movie

Widget boy cultureHorrendous 100-car pile-up.

Widget boy cultureTranslation: Madonna's got a new movie AND album in the works?

Widget boy cultureCameron pushing for marriage-equality vote in the UK.

Widget boy cultureCan Dems retake the House in '14?

Widget boy cultureAbortion fanboy Rep. Scott DesJarlais (R-TN) won't quit. Garrett-Neff-shirtless

Widget boy cultureYou buyin' what Garrett Neff's sellin'?

Widget boy cultureUnited States out of Mexico?

Widget boy cultureCaddy/boy: Cadillac Ranch millionaire accused of bribing boys for sex.

Widget boy cultureBoeing is anti-marriage equality.

Widget boy cultureNOM fears college drag parties.

Widget boy cultureIt's Black Friday. Be ashamed, be very ashamed:

 
Nov 22 2012
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Quinn-Jaxon-bulgeEnjoy this trip-dych

Widget boy cultureQuinn Jaxon, underwear godling, spills his guts.

Widget boy cultureJustin Bieber & Selena Gomez: Liz & Prick. Rupaul-Live_Forever

Widget boy cultureYou Better Re-Work: RuPaul releases a slew of remixes.

Widget boy cultureDon't Like It, Like It: Rihanna's outfit resembles Webster S/M chic.

Widget boy cultureDamiana does Thanksgiving.

Widget boy cultureIs Truvada effective in preventing HIV?

Widget boy cultureAnti-Planned Parenthood Komen ex-exec eyes Senate bid.

Widget boy cultureU.N. pushing for gender-ID protection.

Widget boy culturePulling Some Strings: Neil Patrick Harris's new Nerdist puppet series.

Neil-Patrick-Harris-Nerdist-Puppet-DreamsAnd they call it puppet love

 
Nov 21 2012
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Gale-sondergaard-wicked-witch-of-the-east-1252415Blacklisted actress Gale Sondergaard's career was ruined by that witch hunt

Widget boy cultureHollywood Reporter's mea culpa re the '40s/'50s blacklist era.

Widget boy cultureStone Fox: Emma Stone has a sex tape, and "that's a fact."

Widget boy cultureFOX News shits on Transgender Day of Remembrance.

Widget boy cultureGood As You does far better. Dean-Geyer

Widget boy cultureDean Geyer continues to be cute.

Widget boy cultureChick Flick: Emily's List video thanks supporters.

Widget boy cultureScarborough semi-apologizes to Nate Silver.

Widget boy cultureTeen students routinely sodomized during hazing.

Widget boy cultureJared Leto is a poor man's Lucy Punch as a girl.

Jared-Leto-drag-Lucy PunchPretty enough to be a girl?

Widget boy cultureKylie does "The Loco-Motion" on Strictly Come Dancing.

Widget boy cultureThe Naked Truth: SF bans nudity.

Widget boy cultureNormalizing sex talk.

Widget boy cultureChristine Quinn well-positioned to be NYC's first out mayor.

Christine-quinn-paid-sick-daysVoting her out

 
Nov 18 2012
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Versace-shirtlessSmell ya later!

Widget boy cultureShirtless Versace TV ad.

Widget boy cultureMadonna's MDNA DVD to be filmed in Miami.

Widget boy cultureAnderson Cooper awkwardly discusses his MDNA experience. Uganda_africa

Widget boy cultureUganda's "kill the gays" bill to the House floor Tuesday.

Widget boy cultureGabby Giffords's successor, Ron Barber (D-Arizona) won after all.

Widget boy cultureShoot!: AZ gun store bans O voters.

Widget boy cultureJennifer Esposito, diagnosed with celiac disease, canned by CBS.

Widget boy cultureTurns out Republicans want "gifts," too.

Widget boy cultureAllen West, won't you please go now?

Widget boy cultureSuck It, Shatner: George Takei sings.

Widget boy cultureTrump's steakhouse plays even dirtier than its namesake.

Widget boy cultureHot Dudes in White Underwear = why Facebook was invented.

Hot-dudes-in-white-underwearBuns upon a time