I haven't come out because I am out. I live out.
Holland is rumored to be involved seriously with Sarah Paulson, and commented on the age difference between herself and her current partner (whom she would not name as Paulson):
There's a very big age difference between us, which I'm sure shocks a lot of people, and it startles me. But you know, it's not a statement original to me—I've heard it as a joke once in my past—but as they say, “If she dies, she dies.”