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Using a dildo may seem like a simple thing, but it really isn't. Just like every other sexual practice out there, dildo use can be varied and tailored to meet individual needs.

The humble dildo is one of the most versatile sex toys out there. It can be used alone or it can be used with a partner. When having fun with a dildo on your own, you are free to explore dozens of stimulation possibilities and positions.

If you’re stuck to using your dildo one and the same way every single time, the following guide will acquaint you with many additional possibilities that will make sexy play much more satisfying and explosive.

Types of Dildos

Before moving on to giving you specific ideas on dildo use, let’s check out some of the most common product varieties out there. The word dildo is pretty generic but there are dozens of more specialized items that fall under the umbrella:

• Realistic dildos: a realistic dildo is made to resemble the actual body part it is replicating. There are real skin dildos on the market that have a similar texture and feel to human skin. In addition, they can feature fine details like veins, imperfections and testicles. A realistic dildo may be handheld or it can come with a suction cup.
• Large dildos: these are not created for first-time users. Large dildos are much more massive than an actual human penis. They’re an important part of fetish play but do require knowledge and preparation. If you’re just getting started with dildos, this variety is not necessarily the right one for you.
• Pegging and anal play dildos: as the name suggests, these products are created especially for anal play. They can be thinner than other dildos and sometimes, the shape will be chosen to ensure proper prostate stimulation.
• G-spot dildos: just like some of the anal toys, dildos created for the purpose of G-spot stimulation are angled to hit that sensitive spot at the best possible angle.
• Squirting dildos: fun and realistic, these dildos can be filled with lube (or fake ejaculate that some adult toy manufacturers make). When squeezed in the heat of the moment, the dildo can ejaculate. Some people find this possibility a major turn-on.
• Double dildos: the toy is bendable and it has two heads at both ends. A double dildo can be used for double penetration or it can please two people simultaneously.
• Vibrating dildos: some toys can vibrate for a bit of added pleasure (there are both regular and anal dildos that come with vibrations).
• Strap-on dildos: these toys are compatible with harnesses and they’re perfect for partnered play.

Best Tips for Using a Dildo on Your Own

Solo play is amazing and healthy, whether you have a sexual partner or not. While you can use your imagination and fingers to have fun, sex toys add another dimension to solo play.

A dildo is one of the easiest and most versatile toys to use on your own. Here are a couple of ideas that will give you an amazing experience every single time.

Try Hands-Free Fun

The suction cup dildo is intended for this kind of play.

A suction cup makes it very easy to attach the dildo to the floor or to a wall. Once you do that, you’ll simply need to employ your imagination. A number of different positions become possible when your dildo is secured this way.

The fact that your hands are free is an added bonus. Use them to touch yourself and intensify the stimulation.

Double Penetration

Many people find double penetration rather scary, especially if they’ve never had an experience with two partners at the same time.

A double dildo makes it very easy to experiment with this highly stimulating technique without worrying. The sizes of the two dildo ends are intended to make you feel comfortable and aroused. All that you have to do is slap on a liberal amounts of lube. Experiment with positions, speeds and depths of penetration. If you go slow and steady, you will definitely have a ton of fun.

Have Some G-Spot Fun

G-spot stimulation can be difficult to achieve during sex because the human penis isn’t curved in an optimal way for that purpose.

A dildo, on the other hand, provides much better possibilities.

Trying G-spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time will enable orgasm intensities you haven’t felt before. The trick here is to go steady for as long as you need.

Shallow and Deep Thrusting

Deep thrusting is very intense and pleasurable but you have to prep your body with it.

Generally speaking, it’s a good idea to start slow and shallow. As you become more aroused, you can easily increase the depth of thrusting without experiencing any discomfort. Once again – lube is the key to a good experience.

A Bit of Temperature Play

Some dildos out there are made from glass that can be heated or cooled down. This is called temperature play and it adds a whole new dimension to the experience.

Safety here is very important. Always check the temperature of your dildo before using it for stimulation. While it should be cold or hot, the temperature needs to fall within a comfortable range.

A final word of caution is to never put your glass toy inside the microwave. The manner in which the microwave heats things up can result in serious burns if you use the toy immediately.

Using a Dildo with a Partner

Your dildo can also make partnered sex a lot of fun. Check out the following ideas.

Get a Good Harness

Whether you’re in a same-sex or straight relationship, a dildo can be used for partner penetration (female on female, female on male, male on female or male on male). For the purpose, you need a good harness that will affix the dildo in a comfortable position.

Make sure that the harness you choose has soft and comfy straps. Otherwise, the wearer will find the item unpleasant or even painful to have on for prolonged periods of time.

A Dildo Can Give Men More Girth and Length + It Helps with ED

Hollow dildos are an absolute essential for the couples that are dealing with two problems.

A hollow dildo comes with an empty interior. It fits around a man’s penis, giving him a much bigger size than his natural one.

Because of these characteristics, a hollow dildo can be an excellent choice for guys who are dealing with issues like micropenis or erectile dysfunction (ED). Not only can such a toy bring a man’s confidence back, it will also result in amazing sex for their partner.

Give Pegging a Go

The term pegging refers to an act that involves a woman penetrating a man anally.

It’s great for hetero couples that want to switch things up a bit.

The misconception that only gay guys enjoy anal penetration needs to die right now. Going through the backdoor is the best way to stimulate the prostate. Prostate massages result in powerful orgasms, which is why the gland often gets called the P-spot.

A lot of communication and trust are essential for a good pegging session. Talk to your partner about it and if you’re both open to the possibility, don’t hesitate to experiment.

Double Penetration Fantasies

Dildos make it easy to explore double penetration without having to bring anyone else into the relationship.

The dildo can either be used with a harness or manually to give vaginal or anal penetration while the partner’s penis is inside the other orifice.

Penetration Isn’t the Only Way to Go

A dildo can be used in so many ways. Penetration isn’t the only way to go and you can easily make dildo use a part of your foreplay routine.

A glass dildo, for example, can be heated/cooled and rubbed against different body parts (nipples, neck, buttocks, thighs). The firmness of the dildo and the unusual temperature will both be very arousing.

Vibrating dildos are also an excellent choice and the possibilities for use here are limitless.

Dildos are so beloved because of their versatility.

The ideas suggested above represent a small portion of the things you can do with your brand new sex toy.

Don’t be afraid of testing out something new, even if it appears wild at first. if you’re using the toy with a partner and not solo, always communicate the novelty in advance. That’s the best way to make sure that you’re on the same page and ready to have a ton of fun.