Boy Culture Links: Eve Plumb Never Knew Robert Reed Was Gay, Revisiting Rodiney, Adult Actor Banned from the U.S., Trump Administration Will Reinstate Pride Flag at Stonewall + MORE
APRIL 13, 2026
PAGE SIX: Jan Brady really was blind — promoting her new memoir, Happiness Included: Jan Brady and Beyond, Plumb claims she never knew her TV dad Robert Reed was gay. As in, not even when he was an adult.
Then how did I know?!
I find it shocking the cast didn’t discuss this, but Eve argues that it was a very well-kept secret:
“What was sad was the way it was splashed all over the papers and made to be so lurid … [H]e was part of a group of people who had to hide [their sexuality] and continued to hide who they were and be vilified for having a disease that was none of their doing. To be blamed for that was ridiculous.”
When Reed died in 1992, the initial obits stressed that he died of cancer. His pal, the actor Anne Haney, gave a quote that it was bowel cancer, neglecting to address his HIV.
Immediately thereafter, his death certificate clarified that HIV was a significant contributing factor. Reed’s life was one secret after another.
INSTAGRAM: Remember Rodiney Santiago from The A-List: New York? He was Reichen Lehmkuhl’s squeeze at the time. Just ran across him 15 years later modeling jewelry (the commenters are creeped out by the video because anything an older gay man — in this case, the designer/curator — does is automatically creepy). He also does emotional-release massage.
JUST JARED: Katy Perry and her “disgusting vagina” stand accused of sexual assault by Ruby Rose. The alleged incident happened nine years ago, and Rose claims Katy then helped her get a U.S. visa so she clammed up about the whole thing. In the same whirl of posts, Rose claimed to have been raped by multiple grown men, all unreported (so far).
THE GUARDIAN: Philz coffee stores, a massive chain, have pledged to remove all Pride flags from its locations, caving to right-wing pressure.
NEW YORK TIMES: In a settlement, the Trump Administration agrees to reinstate the Pride flag at the Stonewall National Monument in NYC.
HUFFINGTON POST: Trump is now attacking (checks notes) THE POPE. And he, uh, portrayed himself as Jesus in the post.
JOE.MY.GOD.: A judge has drop-kicked Trump’s ridiculous suit against The Washington Post.
THE HOLLYWOOD REPORTER: More than 1000 big Hollywood names have signed a letter expressing “unequivocal opposition” to the Paramount-Warners deal.
PINK NEWS: Gay-porn star banned from the U.S. for 10 years after attempting to make his way to the GayVN Awards. Milo Miles has apparently been banned because his belongings led authorities to deduce he had engaged in sex work — and even suspicion of that can be arbitrarily used to institute a ban.






